Understanding the patterns that shape how we love, and how to finally change them. They had changed everything. Their city, their job, their social circle. They had left a relationship that wasn't working and given themselves time — real time — to heal and grow and become, they felt, a wiser and more discerning version of themselves. And then they fell in love again. And within six months, they were sitting across from me saying words that made their stomach drop as they hear